2017年9月7日 星期四

【Ingrid's Life】A Postcard is worth a thousand words! A Postcard is a Gift!


A friend sent me a postcard on a trip to Japan. It’s a just single slice of paper written less than a hundred words, but worth a thousand words. She signed her name Julia with a single word “LOVE”, a powerful word imprinted in my mind.

This postcard was landing in my postbox at the right time, not too earlier or too late. I shall feel grateful for the arrangement from God. A few months ago, I, Ingrid, a pregnant career woman had double works, double loadings from my workplace in the day time and home at the night. Oh, triple loadings perhaps? My baby boy needed nutrition from me “ALL THE DAY!” Day and night, busy and exhausted, a postcard from Japan may make me happy at that time, but might not last long. 5 minutes, I guess. First, line Julia a message and then hang up the postcard next to bookshelves. That’s all. Oh, don’t forget the laundry is waiting for you. Your 2-year-old daughter needs the comfort……And you have to plan and execute weekend activities or your kid will feel bored…

Today, I look at the postcard on my desk. Umm…it’s landing at the perfect time. To take a baby caring leave seems lonely, isolated from the society; actually my mind is enriched with peace and gratitude. And I find my way back to appreciate for anything if I could call it beauty or art. This postcard is a transformation of art, “art of friendship.”

Beyond expectation, a postcard of hundred words brings me lots of joy. A postcard brings me back to those beautiful memories of friendship, leadership and self-growth achievement in Toastmasters club. I’ve left Legacy for half a year because of family. In this September, I got a postcard with the best wish from Julia, a very good friend met in Legacy club. I show gratitude from the bottom of my heart for a couple of days. So, now, I expect myself, "don’t forget to leave room for myself, to read literature, to think deep and to appreciate for aesthetics when I return to the workplace" (we all know it’s hard to do though).  

Dear Julia,
Thanks for the lovely message. It means a lot to me. 
It is worth a thousand of words.
Love you too and hope to see you soon!
Cheers,
Ingrid

2017年9月4日 星期一

【2-year-old Amelie】因為爸爸是一片天

攝於2017.07.08@Paul Smith世界巡迴特展

對女兒Amelie來說,爸爸是一片天,只要仰頭向上望去,再微小的願望都會實現:空中盪鞦韆、大怒神、人體溜滑梯;去海邊、去球場、去動物園,都要找到大力士爸爸,因為累了有人背,有人可以抱!

雨後放晴,爸爸說要帶Amelie出門,她會重複爸爸才說過的話,「雨停了,我們出去走走吧!」他們父女兩出門一走就走了好幾百公尺甚至不知幾公里,走到女兒頭髮都濕透了,帶著滿身汗水雀躍地回家,一進門就喊著「媽媽我們回來了!我們有買…..爸爸帶我去了…..

Amelie心中,爸爸還有一個崇高的地位,是一名什麼都能修的修理員;東西壞了,拿給爸爸修理就會復原。有時我不想讓Amelie玩某樣東西,就騙她東西壞掉了,她會點點頭若有其事地回我:「好,等爸爸回來修理。」天啊~她還真把修理當一回事兒!

不知不覺,Amelie自己也變成了一名修理員,她的口頭禪是,「我修理修理!」有天她將我大妹的兩條腿當溜滑梯玩,大妹腿痠了便隨口跟她說溜滑梯壞了,她立馬急著回我大妹,「我幫你修理你的溜滑梯!

女兒平時是愛黏著阿嬤或媽媽的,有時爸爸親她一下,她非得要哇哇大叫跑來媽媽身邊告狀,「媽媽,爸爸偷親我!」但在爸爸去上的日子,卻又總是嚷嚷著爸爸咧?爸爸什麼時候回來?爸爸你好久才下班……這個顏色是爸爸最愛的顏色……這個饅頭是爸爸的……

女兒其實沒有意識到,爸爸早就是她的一片天,可以為她遮風擋雨,也可以帶她遨遊天際、探索世界。是啊!父親就是女兒的一片天,是女兒的人生羅盤,帶著女兒用更廣闊的視野洞悉大觀世界,我想,這點在我心底不曾改變。

攝於2016年,Amelie一歲前